what’s also really fun is the “sex positivity” movement and all the posts about how you should have all the sex you want and sex is great and don’t let anyone tell you you can’t have sex HAVE SEX ALL THE TIME ALL DAY EVERYWHERE IF YOU WANT and blah blah blah blah yay sex
but rarely do i ever see posts saying it’s okay to not have sex ever. it’s okay to be in love with someone and not want to have sex with them ever. it’s okay to not want to talk about sex or think about it or see things relating to sex anywhere.
so many people are quick to say that sex without being in a romantic relationship is perfectly fine and stop slut shaming and stuff
i never see people say that you can be in a romantic relationship and never have sex. even when you’re married. i never see that. sex is seen as a natural progression in a romantic relationship and… that is terrifying to me.
"you need to meet the right person" or "you’ll understand one day" this is so harmful because it makes people feel like they’re wrong if they don’t want to have sex or feel uncomfortable with the idea of it.
idk it’s just messed up and bothers me.